What Is True Friendship?
“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
— Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 (ESV)
Solomon penned these timeless words nearly 3,000 years ago, yet their truth rings just as loudly today. A friend is someone who:
- Helps with your workload
- Lifts you in hard times
- Supports you in illness
- Defends you from attack
- Stands with you unshaken
The Elements of Lasting Friendship
True friendship is a two-way street. Deep bonds are built when we:
- Know each other deeply
- Serve each other willingly
- Love each other unconditionally
Jesus gave us the ultimate test of friendship’s depth:
“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.”
— John 15:13 (ESV)
He didn’t just say it — He proved it. Jesus laid down His life for you and for me.
That’s true friendship. That’s eternal love.
A Brief Prayer
Lord, thank You for the gift of true friendship. Help me to be the kind of friend who gives, serves, and loves like You. Remind me daily that in You, I have a Friend who never leaves or forsakes me. Amen.
A Song to Encourage You
🎵 What a Friend We Have in Jesus – Merle Haggard
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